MIR COACHING
You’ve read “The Masculine in Relationship”. You got a lot from it, and it likely illuminated some relationship dynamics of which you were entirely unaware. As a result, it helped improve your relationship.
But, brother, don’t stop there. You can go so much deeper in this work, and really uplevel your relationship. Reading books is great, but if you really want to free yourself from your entrenched habits, you need to do the embodiment work down at the nervous system level.
We do that both in coaching and the Bootcamp. If you want to improve your holistic set of skills (related to the Masculine Blueprint) and benefit from going through the experience with a cohort of other men, choose the Bootcamp. If you want very focused individual attention and have a bit of a unique situation, then choose 1:1 coaching.
In 1:1 coaching, we’ll dig into the dysfunction and the aspirations relative to your relationship, and try to close the gap.
With all clients, we start by getting you more grounded. We’ll build more capacity within you for handling her emotional intensity and/or expressed disappointment. We do this through daily embodiment practice. See my book “The Art of Embodiment” for more insight.
Where we go next depends on your individual situation, though I’ve found that most guys fall into one of two archetypes. The first is the Nice Guy, and we work on getting him to be more decisive and set direction. We also try to bring him more into his primal side. The second is the emotionally stunted man, who either is very reactive and fearful or emotionally shut down. With him, we work on how he can build more emotional connection with his woman.
We will look at real situations from your life, and I’ll help you understand the ways that you’re hurting her or otherwise not living the Masculine Blueprint. I’ll help you untangle your partner’s behaviors that baffle you- i.e. “Why is she so irritable, distant, critical, and uninterested in sex?” There is usually a reason for them, and often it is in your way of being.
I can say the following with confidence: your woman is dying for you to do this work. Life is too short for either of you to be stuck in a flat, contentious, or toxic relationship. The investment is worth the possibility of repairing the relationship and getting back to the way it used to be when you guys first met.
MIR 1:1 Coaching is a hybrid program - live coaching with me combined with video tutorials:
Live 1:1 sessions with GS. 50-minute 1:1 via Zoom, typically every other week. In these sessions we can dig into your specific relationship situation, applying the learnings from the online course. We will also do embodiment practices as needed.
Access to my Art of Relational Masculinity online course. This is a series of videos that go much deeper into the principles of the Masculine Blueprint. I will often refer you to watch specific modules in support of what came up in our 1:1 session
For the man who is dedicated and “all-in”, the Premium Package is available.
And, if you have limited resources, I am now offering Group Coaching. You subscribe monthly or bi-annualy (6 mos), and can attend the weekly session(s) as needed (currently there is one session per week, and I plan to soon add another in order to keep group size small). There you can ask me your questions and get specific answers. You’ll also learn by observing other mens’ questions.
MIR COACHING PROGRAM PACKAGES
For the man with a challenging relationship and who needs rapid improvement through individual attention
Two 50-minute 1:1 coaching sessions per month
Access to The Art of Relational Masculinity online course
Pay for 3 months, then pay monthly thereafter
Use one of your sessions for me to speak with your partner; this is POWERFUL in diagnosing the real issues
Ask how to get a 10% discount
For the ultra-dedicated man who will put in the time to study notes/recordings, and needs direct access to GS between sessions. Same as 1:1 Coaching above, plus...
Audio recordings of your sessions
My notes of core principles and learnings from your sessions
Access to group coaching
Free enrollment in The Art of Embodiment online course
Emergency access to me via WhatsApp for urgent issues
For the man who needs an affordable path to individual coaching:
Coaching done via Zoom; ask your own questions, and also absorb the learnings from others’ questions
1x coaching session per week (currently Tuesdays at 12:05pm-1pm PST); more will be added each week as needed
$597 for 6 months
Ready to get started, or want more information?
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COACHING WITH LEE
Lee is the female coach with whom I often collaborate for both certain clients and video content. She has three areas of expertise:
One of the most insightful relationship coaches I know
25 year teacher and practitioner of embodiment
Trained osteopath, which includes deep knowledge of trauma in the body
I only occasionally take on a female client - I usually refer them to Lee. Also, she is available to work with my clients in order to get a Feminine perspective on your situation.
But be forewarned…she will see right through you….
Use the contact form at the top of the page to inquire about Lee’s coaching. Note that you can include sessions with Lee in any coaching package, and she also typically participates in the workshops.
