I HELP MEN REPAIR THEIR RELATIONSHIP BY EMBODYING THE MASCULINE BLUEPRINT

MEN, THIS IS SIMPLE.

If your partner frequently nags, criticizes, or tells you she needs more leadership from you, we should talk.

If you label your partner as “acting crazy” when her emotions flare up, we should talk.

If you want to be more powerful in your relationship, less of a pleaser or Nice Guy…we should talk.

And if she’s telling you she doesn’t feel an emotional connection with you…we should talk…and soon.

I CAN HELP.

I wrote about these exact dynamics in my book The Masculine in Relationship. And every day I meet with clients who have this back story.

The choice for these men is simple. Either keep doing what they’re doing, and watch the relationship eventually die on the vine. Or commit the time and resources to growing their Masculine core and showing up in the relationship much more powerfully, grounded, and directive.

I teach Relational Masculinity™, which is the capacity to be grounded in your own power, AND relational with your Feminine partner.

I’m GS Youngblood

I’m the author of “The Masculine in Relationship” and “The Art of Embodiment for Men”, and a student and teacher of men’s work and relationship for over 15 years.

Many of your relationship problems are a result of a lack of Masculine leadership. Start living from your Masculine Core, and you’ll see a lot of the problems abate.

Stop blaming her. Stop trying to fix things BETWEEN you. Definitely stop trying to please her. Do your own work first. I can show you how.

Both books have sold nearly 50,000 copies to date. They’ve been so successful because they boil a complex subject into a simple framework: the Masculine Blueprint. This is a three-part framework that ANY man can adopt:

  • RESPOND VS REACT: instead of defending, explaining, or withdrawing, you’ve trained your nervous system to stay grounded in the face of her interpersonal intensity

  • PROVIDE STRUCTURE: instead of trying to please or defer to others, you develop your own inner clarity about what’s needed or right, then use that to provide direction for yourself and others.

  • CREATE SAFETY: you attend to her physical, financial, and (most importantly) emotional safety, so she can relax and open into her undefended natural Feminine flow.

This is the framework of principles I’ve codified and used to fuel my own 12 year relationship, and taught to countless thousands of men.

Stop tolerating a flat, contentious, or toxic relationship. Life is too short. And when you’re ready to go deeper and truly fix things, see below.

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THE RELATIONSHIP REPAIR BOOTCAMP

My flagship offering, this is an 8-week online live group experience. If you want to go deeper into the MIR principles, this is the best way to do it. You get the benefits of community with 12 like-minded men. Weekly 2 hr practice calls for 8 weeks, along 6 months of group coaching. And access to my “Art of Relational Masculinity” and “Art of Embodiment” online courses. This is all of my core teachings, along with extended access to work with me directly.

COACHING

For those men who prefer more focus on their unique situation, I offer both 1:1 and group coaching. We dig into opportunities for you to better live the Masculine Blueprint. 1:1 slots are limited.

WORKSHOPS

Live training is often the best way to accelerate your growth. Do the experiential work and enjoy the community of like-minded men.

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